Trigger Warnings (contains spoilers)
Upozornění pro diváky: Toto video obsahuje fyzickou šikanu, násilí a ponížení.
Attenzione, questo video potrebbe urtare la sensibilità dello spettatore. Contiene atti di bullismo, violenza fisica e verbale.
Deze video kan schokkende beelden bevatten. Bevat fysiek pestgedrag, geweld, vernedering.
Attenzione, questo video potrebbe urtare la sensibilità dello spettatore. Contiene atti di bullismo, violenza fisica e verbale.
Deze video kan schokkende beelden bevatten. Bevat fysiek pestgedrag, geweld, vernedering.
Attenzione, questo video potrebbe urtare la sensibilità dello spettatore. Contiene atti di bullismo, violenza fisica e verbale.
When is the next episode?
The truth is, we don’t know. We’d love to release them in May, but probably more likely June. If you visit our “When is the next episode?” page, you’ll see the reason: we’re still short on our budget. You can help us by donating to our post-production fund, or by sharing our series.
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Les épisodes de Out With Dad, sur cette chaîne, sont géo-cadenassés dans votre pays en raison de notre deal avec France Télévision. La plupart des épisodes sont déjà disponibles sur la page web de France4 : “Studio 4.0”. Les épisodes de la saison 3.2 arrivent bientôt sur cette page également. www.france4.fr/studio-4-0/webseries/out-dad
starring
Kate Conway as Rose
Corey Lof as Kenny
Caitlynne Medrek as Claire
Chandler Loryn as Brittany Robinson
with
Jonathan Robbins as Nathan
Music Composed, Produced and Performed by:
Adrian Ellis
Created, Written and Directed by:
Jason Leaver
Wow. This web series has truly moved me. I would donate to you guys! Unfortunately, my parents would never approve and I don’t think that 13 year olds can have their own credit card… I can’t wait to see this series continue!
Wow….I’ve been avoiding rewatching this episode since the first time I saw it. It brings up several emotions….being the good dad I am I want to hug Rose and protect her and then I want to tromp down to the school and raise some big time hell. You think Claire was embarrasing? Dad on a rampage!
I am sitting here in front of my computer full of anger and rage cuz I remember days like this, when people were mean and spiteful and full of hate. I am thankful that I didn’t carry the burden of being gay on top of all the rest of the BS I went through but can only imagine what that must be like.
Jason, you’ve the got this wonderful ability and talent to bring out emotions and evoking a response….So why are you making industrial videos and not being some famous Movie Director. I know, we all gotta pay the bills and support our families but wow, you’re pretty damn good sir.
Anyways, I hope that Karma is going to get Brittany in the end and I hope she pays for the damage she’s done to not only Rose but to Vanessa and, more than likely, some of the other girls in the school.
Good job on the acting as usual! Terrific job on the production, too, as if we’d ever have a doubt of anything less…
Seethingly yours (heh) Spike
Klasse Serie!
Danke für die deutschen Untertitel, mein Englisch ist leider sau schlecht^^
Grüsse aus Deutschland ****
WE NEED 3.15 NOW!! We are dying!
Thank u for your excellent work.
I’m wondering if Brittany is gay herself but not ready to come out yet… And trying to avoid ir ignore her own feelings..
Btw, very interesting show about the difficulties of life!
Greetings from Belgium
Oh my god this is better than any tv series I have ever watched and has given me the strength to come out this weekend. Thank you sooooooooo much for making this. I hope rose becomes an actor when she is older!
This one really got to me. I posted comments on my blog: https://fedscomic.blogspot.com/2014/05/reviews-double-date-with-dad-and-pushed.html
Omg I thought this was supposed to help our coming out…. Now I am scared to… 😰
Everything is scary but it helps to just let it out. Say Bealive in me or forget just think your someone because I am a scared as you.
I miss Vanessa! I hope more episodes about Vanessa. Because now i’m in love with her
Out with Dad is amazing. I learned about it from Buzzfeed on Wednesday, and have not been able to stop watching since them. As a 14 year old girl, I can relate to many things in OWD, and it has given me the courage to come out.
I feel the same way… But sometimes it’s not curate as much as fear…
to tell yu the truth OWD is amazing and like I came out to my friends then my sister then when I met this guy he was scared to say he was gay so tht gave me the courage to tell everyone im bi but only 3 people of my family knows im bi and tht my sis and my two cousins so yay
My grand-daughter introduced me to this series and we watched it together. In this episode, I was thinking at the end “Hey, this is criminal assault, go to the police.” You can’t get away with knocking people down and kicking/stomping them.
Thomas,
Thank you so much for sharing with us that you’ve watched. It was a dream right from the very beginning of making this show that our young audience would watch it with their parents. To read this includes grandparents warms my heart.
Rest assured the story with Brittany isn’t over yet….
I can’t wait to see what’s going next!
And Vanessa’s story omg this should be on TV is great.
Tons of love from Argentina <3
Wow if that was my school it would have been all on between Brittany an rose an hope Vanessa’s ok
If it had been my High School all those other girls would have been like with and stood up for both Rose and Clare. Though, one of my classmates couldn’t invite her girlfriend to prom. If your date was outside of the school, they had to be approved by the school. The school rejected my classmate’s girlfriend, because they thought (supposedly) that she was just trying to cheat the system and get a friend in.
She had been out since our freshman year… hell maybe even since Middle School. The same went for our ROTC dances. It was the school and the teacher’s decision, but the whole school was pretty upset about it. I wasn’t out and wouldn’t have a date anyways, but I got to go with my friend, as friends.
Let me get this right. You could bring out a friend from outside the school, and that was approved? But your classmate couldn’t get an aprovement to bring a date she was in a relationship with? It sounded more like you cheated the system then she did… was it anyone else in straight relationships that got rejected to bring their boyfriend or girlfriend to prom?
Just to be evil Rose should start a rumor that her and Britney made out and she’s just jealous of Claire and that’s why she was so mean, lmfao I know it would never happen because Rose doesn’t like a lot of attention but it would still be awesome and hilarious.
Saben si van a seguir subiendo los capitulos a youtube? Es que no me deja verlos subtitulados no me sale nada con esa opcion y me gustaria poder seguir viendola ya que me quede por el cap 6 de la tercera temporada…
That’s such bs. Rose is like 2 times her size, just freakin’ punch her in the mother nose. Jeez.
Where is the like button when you need it?
i know right, i would’ve left her with no teeth left.
This episode…I still have to make my friend watch it…it might be able to help her find who she is…but anyways, this show is so amazing! But poor Rose…I feel so bad for her…at least no one is in the changing room when I am, though I don’t need anymore gym, but still! I love this series so much, it gives me so much more confidence
Wow, I feel so bad for her, this nearly made me cry. It makes me remember the time before I moved schools, I came out as gay to my close friend group but within a few days the whole school knew. I was bullied physically and verbally but mostly in the changing room. The girls used to give me dirty looks and swear at me, some pushed me and hit me. This caused my confidence and self respect to torpedo downwards, I started self harming and concidered suicide. After many weeks I told my parents, my mother told the school board but they said the issue was out of their hands so I carried on there whilst my mother seeked my education elsewhere. I’m now in a very loving and accepting school, although only my closest friends know I’m gay.
Awww poor you that must have been terrible 🙁 But you must be happy on you new school 🙂
I agree with Maria, but I’d also like to add that your parents sound amazing. I’m glad your mother found you a much safer and accepting place. I couldn’t even imagine going through the bullying you did and it makes me happy to know you don’t have to go through it at your new school. 🙂
Hey did anyone realise one of the girls were crying like ‘she’s gay also and she doesn’t want to be next’ type of cry. All the others were like ‘I don’t want to end up like Rose, should I help Brittney or Rose?’
Yeah, I realized that too. Maybe she might be in some episode coming up later.
Seriously, I hate how homophobes use the whole gay as an excuse to have gays kicked out of the lockeroom. For the love of god, just because they like the same sex DOESN’T FREAKING MEAN THEY LIKE VERY GUY/GIRL WHO WALKS BY!!! I myself am bisexual (though I prefer girls) and just because I walk by one in the store or mall doesn’t mean I get turned on just because, hey, she’s a girl. I have to actually know the person before I decide I want to look at her for another minute.
Well isn’t Brittany’s behaviour interesting.. pure hatred or closeted lesbo?
I wonder when will Vanessa grow up and take some steps forward.. I think is best if Rose keeps some stuff to herself, not running to her dad about everything.
Great job Jason, this is going great.
I think Brittany might be a closet lesbian or bisexual or questiong and is jealous of Rose because she is proud of who she is and has a girlfriend. I don’t think that anyone in this world truly hates people that are gay.
When will you put in a person with trans identity in the series? It would be really nice if it could be a little understanding of that too. Maybe a genderqueer person or something. Transguys or transgirls… at least after transition seem to me like regular guys and girls. I can’t even tell if they started out as a different sex to be honest… but if you’re gender queer you kind of either stay in between genders or swap in and out… instead of just sticking with one gender. It’s more constant then people changed completely…
I agree I think there should be someone who is transgender (or someone who just had a sex change) so that we can see what it’s like for them.
Well… I didn’t necessary mean it had to be a real transgender person. Could be acting anyway if the acting is good. Or it could be someone who’s starting to change from one gender into another. Maybe Vanessa will date a transgender person… that would be interesting. Because Vanessa has stated that she’s bi… then she could maybe find someone who has not changed gender… fall in love, and stay in the relationship after the gender has changed. Bisexuals might as well be pansexual… it’s just not a term that everyone knows about. Calling yourself bi doesn’t exterminate the possibility of pansexuality.
As a matter of fact, we once (very briefly) featured a transgender character in our Out with PFLAG, Part I episode. “Morgan” is portrayed by a friend of mine who is transgender. We’ve filmed more scenes with him, and you’ll see him again in much larger role in a Season 3.3 episode, which will be titled Out with PFLAG, Part III.
There has yet been a transgender person in OWD.
The guy who doesn’t want to share at the PFLAG meeting, but just feel not alone, is a real transgender person actually.
Jason once commented on that … but it hasn’t been developed yet.
Another PFLAG meeting is coming in season 3.3 …
What’s wrong with Brittany? If I had been Rose, I would’ve fough back. Kicked her ass. She doesn’t look that tough. I think Rose could’ve beaten the crap out of her.
Where was she implying that Rose should change her clothes? Out in the hallway or something? And the girls that did nothing. Cowards all of them. They where all part of it by not saying or doing anything to stop her.
And Rose was sitting with her back against the other girls the entire time too, so accusing her for watching was pretty stupid. Glad this isn’t how it is in reality… at least I have never had any experiences with anyone treated this way in real life.
Sadly Luna this is exactly how it is in reality.
Some people will use any excuse to throw their weight around and have a go at others – it doesn’t even have to make sense. Hair colour, being from a different part of town, speaking with an accent, being good at a subject in class – anything will do as the ‘reason’ to victimise their chosen target. It shows how untrue the ‘reason’ is when there are others with the same differences who aren’t picked on. And yes, I have had experience of being treated like this in real life.
All the other girls there looked really uncomfortable about what was going on, like they didn’t agree with what Brittany was doing but, as you say, not brave enough to say or do anything. Quite a contrast to 3.05 where everyone except Brittany is saying to Rose how happy they are for her! But it’s not easy to go against a dominant or ‘popular’ person while you’re still finding out about yourself and making that transition from child to adult.
And if it came to a scrap between Rose and that scrawny bitch I know who I’d put my money on
Yea… If she was having her thoughts about how lesbians were… she should be more careful about messing with Rose, because the typical lesbian is much stronger than the straight girl. I’m actually kind of mad at Rose for not sticking Brittany’s head in the toilet and flushing.
Right! Ithink Rose could have kicked the crap out of her. It sucks to be in this situation and have not a single person to stick up for you though:/
Ok, we really need a break from all those bad things. It keeps getting worse. And guys, is it me or the episodes are shorter and shorter?
@Larissa, i had the same impression about it became shorter…
I think they are keeping the ones with heavy triggers short so you can skip them without missing a lot of story.
I agree Larissa, they are getting shorter
Oh my, another really tough, really emotional episode. Something’s got to give for both Rose and Vanessa.
WOW!!!! just… WOW!!!! 🙂 AMAZING EPISODE!!!! 🙂 I hope the rest of the episodes will come out (no pun intended) soon!!!! If I was in the world of Out With Dad I would have stood up for Rose and I would have put Brittany in the hospital. I HATE how bullies get away with this sort of stuff. My friend, from a different school, got bullied by older pupils (she’s not gay I’m just using this as an example of how bullies sometimes get away with bullying). And when her mum went to the school to complain they said that they couldn’t do anything unless she had proof or a witness :(. I think that might happen to Rose :(. I think the school might have done something about the bullying by now. The other day in school I had to hear a few of my classmates make some homophobic comments (not to me). I HATE BULLIES!!!! 🙁
Yeah I agree with Maria the episodes are amazing and my friend got bullied for no reason and I stood up for her and her bullies back away immediately. If I was in that episode where Rose was getting beaten up I would come over to Brittany and say “There’s something on your face” than punched her so hard her head hit the ground and replied “It was pain!”
How I grew up….The bigot would not be able to stand after I was done with her. Excellent show! Loving the good with the bad feelings it brings up. Well Done!
Great episode, I’ve been through bullying myself when I was out in middle school and it sucked. It hurt watching this but it’s important to highlight this kind of bullying still happens. I’m getting married next month to my partner, so I will not have any funds to donate, but I plan to donate in the neat future because this is important work you all are doing here. Thanks for all you do!
I was wondering when Rose would have to deal with that bigot. And you know Brittany is unlikely to face any sort of punishment because of their school’s apparent stance on homosexuality, even if Rose or one of those other girls in the dressing room does speak up to report Brittany’s bullying. They’ll probably try and blame the victim (Rose and, to an extent, Claire) if the subject does come up later. It is rather infuriating to see someone get away with this sort of behavior but more often than not does the bully face any sort of consequences to their actions. This is a very distressingly realistic approach to this type of scenario.
Fiquei realmente chocada com o final desse episódio.
Espero que o pai dela veja o que aconteceu e expulsem a Brittany da escola.
Que pessoa estúpida.
Saudades legenda em português.
Xoxo from Brazil
So good, so short!
Kate’s, Corry’s and Cate’s acting was superb. And did Kenny just became incredibly hotter over night?:D
Can’t wait for the next part of the season.
Thank you all<3
I feel …. i feel very sad watching this episode.
🙁 All of us (LGBT or straight people) will suffer some type of discrimination.
U_______U just only for being “different”.
¿why?
Ok first we have to worry about Vanessa and now Rose, Jason your pushing my stress level through the roof lol:) But I do feel really bad for her if I was their and I seen it Ms. Brittney Robinson would probably be in the hospital right now. I also feel bad or Claire she was trying to be nice and have fun I do understand Roses frustration but it’s not like Claire was trying to hurt her or anything, she didn’t deserve to be yelled at. Anyway donating is definatley on my list within the next like 2 weeks anything to help thi show and get episodes out faster and if or when there’s a season 4 ill donate every dime because u can’t get any better than and entertaining show that also helps people’s lives along the way;)
So sad! Really well-done episode.
I was so surprised that Brittany actually started kicked Rose. I wasn’t surprised that she pushed her, since we see some of that in the season 3 trailer, but when she started kicking Rose…awful…
I know how Rose must feel. I’ve never been bullied for being queer, but in elementary school I was bullied, and school felt like a trap, and I can see that it must feel that way for Rose, too.
Yeah, the kicking shocked me as well.
I hope Rose tells her dad. And why does she have to go to that school? Why not go to a public school that doesn’t have the religion-based homophobia? You might still get bullied, but at least the school is more likely to do something about it rather than thinking you deserve it.
And Rose cares way too much what people think, so she would NOT go to the dance with Claire even if the bullying incident had not happened and they were in a secular school. I hate seeing her be so shy and self-conscious that she’s even trying to hide this from her dad! I guess all teenagers are self-conscious to some degree, but Rose seems exceptionally so. Wow, it sure is freeing when you finally don’t care what other people think of you!! I finally got to that point in my early ’30s, and 2 decades later I can’t even *remember* the last time I was worried about what someone would think or say about me. I don’t even tidy up my place when someone is coming to visit. I even mentioned on my profile on a dating site that I had a period when I lived without a phone, a car, or a place to live. Oh, yeah, homelessness,— that’s a chick magnet! *LMAO* But I figure, you’re going to find out stuff about me eventually anyway, so why waste both our time pretending to be something besides who I am. Oh, I’m sorry,— you’d rather date someone who is dishonest with you than someone who is honest? Okey-dokey. One of us is missing out on a really good girlfriend,— and it’s not me. Take me or leave me, you’ll always know you’re seeing the real me.
Donna…you’ve hit the nail on the head….those of us in our 50s seem so much smarter and wiser than we were in our teens.
Having said that, being the dad of a teenager in a private Christian school, well it was either that or gang ridden public middle school with all sorts of other problems. So, I could see where a parent chooses the striated atmosphere of that private school and getting a good education as opposed to the more open, chaotic and occasionally dangerous public school.
On your second point, appearances and what people think is tough for a lot of people to overcome. My wife being one of them.
For example, we had a plumber coming over and while she knew he would not care what our house looked like she made sure it was all nice and tidy. I kept telling her c’mon he won’t care….’but I will’ was all she’d say. Then she’d look at me and remind me that I was just a stupid knuckle dragging male, so how could I possibly understand?
Having been homeless for a short while, too….maybe that’s liberated us from the curse of social anxiety of ‘what people think’!
Enjoyed reading your post.
Well… I think your past is not so important for who you are now. Yes, it’s right that it will come sooner or later out. Still, you don’t need to tell every bad things that happened in your life on a profile. If there’s thing in your past that you’re not really that comfortable to talk about yet, you should not put it out there as a subject… Everyone has a past… and not everyone is ready to talk about it yet… they rather feel the need to focus on something positive instead.
Like me for example… I don’t actually mention I have a son. Not because I don’t love him or don’t feel proud over my son. It’s because of the circumstances that has made me unable to see him as often as I would want to. I miss him so much that it hurts me everyday to know he’s so close, yet so far away… I’m taking medicine because of the depression it has given me too. And then I think… why should I tell this to someone new… and feel sad when I rather can talk about something that makes me happy? It’s easier for people to give me a little happiness in my sad life when they don’t know how dark down it is. I feel like I rather just tell the circumstances to people who either can help me or those I seem to get close with.
I was yelling inside my head for Rose to jump up & pin the bully against the lockers. Damn with all these feels OWD are dishing out this season u hv me exhausted 😉
Well, that’s a first…..I’ve had tears in my eyes after an episode before but I’ve never been nauseated before. Jason, you’ve got this knack of bringing it out all and I haven’t lived this for 40 plus years or so. I can remember days like that though, not always happening to me but definitely to other people and it was never joyful to be a part of.
Rose needs to find a way to lay some law down on Brittany….probably by just standing up to her since she probably is used to fear from people since she seems so much taller than everyone else.
Jason, once you’re fully funded for the next set of episodes can you reedit this and make it a little longer? It seems to fly through and ends way too quickly. More of the interaction with Kenny, Kenny Claire and Rose and Claire and Kenny would be good. Getting Nathan’s reaction to his daughter’s humiliation would be crucial too.
I gotta do my part with a donation and it will happen soon.
That was a good espiode..poor rose..I hope that girl gets what she has coming and that rose tells what happen to her..cant wait to see what happens in the next eight espiodes.
Love the episode, but it was too short. Felt so bad for Rose. I teach 8th grade in the US. We have started a GSA and students are participating in the Day of Silence on April 11th to draw attention to LGBTQ bullying. This episode reminds me that attitudes have changed a lot since I was a teen but there is still work.to do. I plan to donate to help finish the season.
God, poor Rose! :// The saddest thing is that this happens to kids in real life too. It’s horrible. I’m so lucky for living in an accepting and openminded environment, but not everyone’s so lucky.
To everyone out there who is struggling to with these kinds of problems: Don’t give up. It will get better, even if it doesn’t seem that way.
Wow, that was one well-made.. This episode almost made me cry…
For sure, bullying isn’t a good thing. 🙁 I hope that Rose will handle those mean girls.